When you write software you need to take responsibility of any bug that users might blame you for. No matter if it is your fault or not. If the end users think it is your fault, then you should take responsibility to fix the problem no matter where it actually lies.
When you run a business, if your software has a bug, your customers don’t care if it is your fault or Linus’ or some random Rails developer’s. They care that your software is bugged. Everyone’s software becomes my software because all of their bugs are my bugs. When something goes wrong, you need to seek out what is broken, and you need to fix it. You fix it at the right spot in the stack to minimize risks, maintenance costs, and turnaround time. Sometimes, a quick workaround is best. Other times, you’ll need to recompile your compiler. Often, you can ask someone else to fix it upstream, but just as often, you’ll need to fix it yourself.
True hackers have come to terms with a simple fact: If it runs on my machine, it’s my software. I’m responsible for it. I must understand it. Building from source is the rule and not an exception. I must control my environment and I must control my dependencies.
Although this attitude needs to extend beyond dependencies, and also cover things like your distribution.